I am one of these girls who always think every one should be happy and on a high. Well most the time sometimes I am like eugh i am a worthless piece of shit who shouldnt be happy but really I should be happy and be like "bow down before me bithes I am your Queen" Which involves being happy: emotionally, physically and mentally. Also Being confident makes more roads open up to you rather then being shy with no where to go. However I can tell you from my own experience that this isn't always easy I mean last year was the thoughest year of my life by far and my aniexty came back quicker then an ex who knows he just left a fine piece of ass.
which bring me onto the next paragraph of being confident and its about feeling good body wise.Your body is a temple and you need to remember that no one elses but yours and how you treat it depends on how you want to be treated. By this I don't mean if you buy a big mac every day your as quick and easy as your fast food thats being served to you, but what I mean is the equal balance. By all means I love a bit of fast food or a nandos every know and again but at the same time I know I am not doing anything good for my body, which then puts me on a down making my body and emotions feel sad which normally relates to me hating everyone on this planet. But I need to stop that because it's no one elses fault but mine no one in my local kebab ( yes you know its bad when its a local kebab) is going to go oi love looking a bit fat want to lay of the cheesey chips.
This is why I have decided I should do a random post on happiness and confidence and being a queen quite simply. firstly then you need to learn how to strut your stuff by this I mean your confidence walk to "bow down bitches". Honestly try it next time you walk. walk with confidence by standing tall and carrying your pretty head high.
the next one is to take that compliment, Do not brush them of but learn to appriciate them honestly so many people would rate you more even guys because no man likes repeating themself. Also by doing this you will be balancing the negative thoughts that you think off yourself and the posistive ones others give you making you feel more happy and confident.
Thirdly then dont always seek approval, Not everyone is going to think your amazing and if you got a good job no one will ever give you credit for how hard you work for it infact some may envy you that is what I've come across recently however who needs that why should you always be trying to please everyone else if you got a good grade at school or if you got a new good job dont be down about it just think to yourself how hard you work for it and how much you deserve it approval starts from within you.
Lastly, Never compare yourself to others this is a huge mistake which will lead to a tub of ben and jerry ice cream bridget jones and greecey hair, In fact inbrace the fact you are different. It may seem like someone may be better then you and has a better life then you but we really need to rememeber what was their journey to get them there in the first place. Always remember your a queen and that no one can take your crown off you. Your beautiful smart and clever and there is no one who can replace you so just be you
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Tuesday, 3 February 2015
Life- Friendships
Growing up I would see my friends every day up to college. Us girls couldn't be seperated even the boys. in the week days we would always be at school and I was lucky that my friendship group was so big that I always had at least one friend in my lesson if not all of them. If your at school and you have come across my page and your reading this I want to say make the most of that time. I know all the older generation say it like your mum or dad or even nan, but trust me when Me at 18 is telling you school years are the best years of your life.
Now since college my friendship group grew smaller and the friends I would spend weekends camping with or going to the park and having a bbq ended up being the friends who I know now as a name on instagram and twitter. My college friends however I make the effort to speak too although I have grown apart from the majority off them there is two girl friends who I know will be my friends forever we have formed such great friendship, infact i look upon them now as my sister and know that we will be life long friends. So what is this blog about well coming across friendships groups and being in and out of them I have learnt alot as well as grown up alot.
One of my rules about friendship is never to natter about one another, I used to be in a friendship group that once someone back was turned it would turn into the ultimate bitch feast in all honesty I use to think I was in a scene from mean girls.
And thats when I got thinking if they could bitch about them so easily then they could bitch about me too. and thats when I decide in fact I don't want to be around people who only get a kick from putting others down I never was that type of girl and never want to be that type of girl again.
In fact I really cheerish all of my friendships even if they are just acquaintances with my best friend I try to see them as often as I can but what with work always getting in our way and the distance it is quite hard however we always make the effort to text at least once a day or have a 5 hour phone call once a day.
I try not to take any one for granted as well I will always constantly remind them that I do notice how much they do for me and how much I love them, In fact i came across a saying in a book that "friendships are important and the reason being is because it contributes to our physical emotional and mental wellbeing " They even make us live longer so if that isn't a good deal what is.
So now I've come to a closure of my short blog. Sorry it is awfullt short I just wanted to write about what was on my mind so here it is.
Maybe it could be a great time now for you to text your bestfriends and maybe tell them how much they mean to you.
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Now since college my friendship group grew smaller and the friends I would spend weekends camping with or going to the park and having a bbq ended up being the friends who I know now as a name on instagram and twitter. My college friends however I make the effort to speak too although I have grown apart from the majority off them there is two girl friends who I know will be my friends forever we have formed such great friendship, infact i look upon them now as my sister and know that we will be life long friends. So what is this blog about well coming across friendships groups and being in and out of them I have learnt alot as well as grown up alot.
One of my rules about friendship is never to natter about one another, I used to be in a friendship group that once someone back was turned it would turn into the ultimate bitch feast in all honesty I use to think I was in a scene from mean girls.
And thats when I got thinking if they could bitch about them so easily then they could bitch about me too. and thats when I decide in fact I don't want to be around people who only get a kick from putting others down I never was that type of girl and never want to be that type of girl again.
In fact I really cheerish all of my friendships even if they are just acquaintances with my best friend I try to see them as often as I can but what with work always getting in our way and the distance it is quite hard however we always make the effort to text at least once a day or have a 5 hour phone call once a day.
I try not to take any one for granted as well I will always constantly remind them that I do notice how much they do for me and how much I love them, In fact i came across a saying in a book that "friendships are important and the reason being is because it contributes to our physical emotional and mental wellbeing " They even make us live longer so if that isn't a good deal what is.
So now I've come to a closure of my short blog. Sorry it is awfullt short I just wanted to write about what was on my mind so here it is.
Maybe it could be a great time now for you to text your bestfriends and maybe tell them how much they mean to you.
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Monday, 29 December 2014
Leaving it Behind
Leaving it behind
So todays topic is going to be about leaving it behind. And no I don't mean leaving your little sibling in the middle of the topshop sale in oxford street ( Seriously mum that was an accident I swear). I mean leaving behind every tear drop, every angry cell and every single bad thought.Even certain people behind. literally leave it! because how can you start a new chapter if you keep re living the old one man I sound so cliche. So firstly let's talk about every tear drop we've all cried this year and every tree we've killed because something got to soak up them mother fuckers and it won't be your new £65.00 dress that makes me your bum bigger the Kim K! I mean was it worth it,was it worth the cry? In some cases my friends yes it was.It was good to let out all that tear water it was good to make your eyes all glossy and shiny and it was probably good hitting a pillow or a face whilst crying. But as this book of 365 pages comes to a closure, I want you to discard all of them reasons you cried erase it like a selfie that got 5 chins. Erase it and never speak of it again like your bad hair cut in year 5 because sweethearts we can't go In to 2015 still crying. And regretting and over thinking about what we did on the 1st January 2014. So what we mess up so what you break a few hearts, plates and wine glasses so what if your heart gets broken by some lad who thinks it's cool to sleep with you and the rest of your local town ( like girls don't speak darling). At the end of the day we're all just living and that's what life's about yes your gonna be sad some days.Yes girls sometimes were gonna think we're so ugly even the Turkish men who sell us kebabs at 4 am would look the other way. It's all okay I promise you because in the end the only person we need to please is ourself. This has sort of involved tears and thoughts so let's move on to the big one yes that big one that I know we all have people the human race there 7 billion people out there and I'm sure there 6.9 billion people you would just love to ignore or is that just me?
So people let you down honest opinion and yes we can get sad throw a tantrum and moan. But let's do something better at at 11:59 PM(if your some where else Round the world it be a miniute till midnight I want you to stop and think do I need you? Before you send that 'happy new year' text to your ex boyfriend, girlfriend, friend in some case even family. Ask yourself do I need them? Cos right now I can honestly say half my contact book if now 3/4 of it aren't even important. Once they may of been once they may been the boy to sit up with you and tell you everything at 2 AM whilst you sat on a swing in the park, Or it could be a boy or girl who laid with you and played with your hair? So this is it!This is when you think if they haven't spoken to you or if it's only a one sided communication do I really need them? I always promised that id be honest so here it is I will be leaving friends behind as well as family. I'll be leaving someone behind I never thought I ever would id be leaving someone who promised me the world I'll also be leaving 3/4 of my friends the ones who are a bad infulances, the ones who put me down And the ones who only want to speak to you when they need money for their night out in the town.
Finally then here it is here to 2014 " i say with a bottle of water cos im only young and champs taste like piss anyway" Heres to the tattoo I got which everyone hates here to the boss who always tells me I need to wear more makeup and here is to every wanker who let me down,Hurt me or simply just wasn't around
cheerio peasent
Before I go though I just want you to know your stronger then you think and just like me you can say bye to all the people boys and girls and family who have made you cry who have made you angry and quite simply pissed you off.
love
Camden
x
So todays topic is going to be about leaving it behind. And no I don't mean leaving your little sibling in the middle of the topshop sale in oxford street ( Seriously mum that was an accident I swear). I mean leaving behind every tear drop, every angry cell and every single bad thought.Even certain people behind. literally leave it! because how can you start a new chapter if you keep re living the old one man I sound so cliche. So firstly let's talk about every tear drop we've all cried this year and every tree we've killed because something got to soak up them mother fuckers and it won't be your new £65.00 dress that makes me your bum bigger the Kim K! I mean was it worth it,was it worth the cry? In some cases my friends yes it was.It was good to let out all that tear water it was good to make your eyes all glossy and shiny and it was probably good hitting a pillow or a face whilst crying. But as this book of 365 pages comes to a closure, I want you to discard all of them reasons you cried erase it like a selfie that got 5 chins. Erase it and never speak of it again like your bad hair cut in year 5 because sweethearts we can't go In to 2015 still crying. And regretting and over thinking about what we did on the 1st January 2014. So what we mess up so what you break a few hearts, plates and wine glasses so what if your heart gets broken by some lad who thinks it's cool to sleep with you and the rest of your local town ( like girls don't speak darling). At the end of the day we're all just living and that's what life's about yes your gonna be sad some days.Yes girls sometimes were gonna think we're so ugly even the Turkish men who sell us kebabs at 4 am would look the other way. It's all okay I promise you because in the end the only person we need to please is ourself. This has sort of involved tears and thoughts so let's move on to the big one yes that big one that I know we all have people the human race there 7 billion people out there and I'm sure there 6.9 billion people you would just love to ignore or is that just me?
So people let you down honest opinion and yes we can get sad throw a tantrum and moan. But let's do something better at at 11:59 PM(if your some where else Round the world it be a miniute till midnight I want you to stop and think do I need you? Before you send that 'happy new year' text to your ex boyfriend, girlfriend, friend in some case even family. Ask yourself do I need them? Cos right now I can honestly say half my contact book if now 3/4 of it aren't even important. Once they may of been once they may been the boy to sit up with you and tell you everything at 2 AM whilst you sat on a swing in the park, Or it could be a boy or girl who laid with you and played with your hair? So this is it!This is when you think if they haven't spoken to you or if it's only a one sided communication do I really need them? I always promised that id be honest so here it is I will be leaving friends behind as well as family. I'll be leaving someone behind I never thought I ever would id be leaving someone who promised me the world I'll also be leaving 3/4 of my friends the ones who are a bad infulances, the ones who put me down And the ones who only want to speak to you when they need money for their night out in the town.
Finally then here it is here to 2014 " i say with a bottle of water cos im only young and champs taste like piss anyway" Heres to the tattoo I got which everyone hates here to the boss who always tells me I need to wear more makeup and here is to every wanker who let me down,Hurt me or simply just wasn't around
cheerio peasent
Before I go though I just want you to know your stronger then you think and just like me you can say bye to all the people boys and girls and family who have made you cry who have made you angry and quite simply pissed you off.
love
Camden
x
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